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But this common fantasy is one that few of us feel comfortable sharing.

In real-life contexts, rape — meaning sex against your will — is deeply traumatising. Content warning: Those who find discussions of rape and sexual assault may find this article triggering.

There is a huge difference between acted out role-play, imagined scenarios, and real-life experiences. No one asks to be raped, no one deserves to be raped, and how fantas forced sex fantasies are in no way justifies unwanted sexual contact of any nature.

Essex Vermont ok sexchat But the women we spoke to mentioned that their fantasies of forced sex steered away from experiences that would be close to reality. Rather than lines of consent being crossed by friends or bosses, we fantasise about high drama situations in which we are forced to have sex to survive, entering into sexual contracts rather than having our right to consent taken away from us outright.

Tasha, 24, fantasises about thieves breaking into her house and being so attracted to her they have to have sex with her against her will. In both scenarios, the women said they start out by resisting advances, wantingg begin to enjoy the sex midway through.

But for other women, fantasies are more wantiny to life. Why is this? Why do we find the idea of rejecting sex then doing it anyway a turn on?

Dr Michael Yates, clinical psychologist at the Havelock Clinic, explains that there are a few theories. Essentially, lingering feelings of shame around taking agency over our own sexual desires can make us want to transfer them on to another body, thus giving us permission to fantasise about sexual acts. The second theory is down to the dominant narratives shown in media Dyersville-IA lonely housewife porn.

So that might be the why — but what about the who?

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Does having fantasies about being raped mean anything about us? Are certain types of women more likely to have fantasies of being raped?

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Women who have fantasies of rape do not want to experience real-life rape. Fantasies are not permission to do such a thing, and what people find erotic in their minds can be deeply distressing when played out in reality.

These women also had the most consensual sex fantasies. While most of us will be happy to keep them to ourselves, others may want to explore forced sex in a consensual setting.

And if you find that your fantasy has brought up trauma when played out in real-life, talk to a trained mental health professional to work through things and ensure you can get comfortable with sex again.

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But the fantasy of being raped, also known as nonconsent and forced sex fantasies, is common. The Fix The daily lifestyle email from Metro.

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