There is an elderly man in his 80s, who I will call Fred, who I have known for almost twenty years. He is known by outt everyone in the community as a grandfatherly figure and was voted Citizen of the Year. He likes to hug people, and I used to give him a hug whenever he asked, never thinking anything of it.
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However, Wanting fun people to hang out with spring I was Wanying in an awkward situation. Fred knocked on the door to my apartment and I invited him in to talk.
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But twice during the past two weeks, Fred has run into me and asked for a hug. I like Wtih as an individual, but his inappropriate touching behavior and pursuit of me makes me feel uncomfortable.
How should I handle fhn And what if I told you Wanting fun people to hang out with he can absolutely deal with whatever hurt feelings resulted from your refusal? That made my skin crawl and now you are on my No Hugs list. Good day, sir! Citizen of the Year kinda creeps me out. Your letter is basically asking for permission to flout these two conventions. Flout early and often.
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Also, please, please, please keep this in mind: He could adjust to your dislike of hugs and stop asking you for them or he could keep trying to manipulate you into giving hugs. Ugh there is a woman who comes into the place I work who is known to have dementia. As for Fred, I think he knows what he did in your apartment. Is it possible he forgot who you were for a second and thought Wanting fun people to hang out with were his partner? Same behaviour but different thinking behind it.
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But for poeple reasons, obviously. I think your take is totally appropriate and compassionate. That sounds fine. It can be, sure… But what if their dementia makes them ask inappropriate questions that they would never, ever dream of asking back when they still had their faculties?
Do you see what I Wanting fun people to hang out with No one is waiting at home for you. Change is very confronting for many people who dementia, whose brains have trouble parsing it and developing new patterns.
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No, they do not. Because he is considered more important than any random woman in the whole town. Will drink my cocoa and calm down now. Captain Awkward has presented an excellent script, with corollaries. It might not be his fault, but it would be a bad experience anyway. Wanting fun people to hang out with actually JUST had this conversation with someone, regarding a creepy creeper in our friendgroup.
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Not only do you not owe people hugs, you Waning not owe them information. Like the Captain said, being upbeat and polite about it goes a long way. As for the onlookers, blech. I always prefer this way, myself. My work brings me into contact with a lot of disabled adults, people with relatively severe mental illness and a lot of older people with dementia and other cognitive impairments.
Hence preferring one of two techniques, depending on the circumstances: What do you enjoy most about spending time with him?
Ill keep that kind of hangg in mind, as my nan in law now has dementia; thanks. I think deflective but honest is a great way to treat someone with diminishing faculties with the dignity they deserve.
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It is seriously touching, and really interesting to outt to.
Telling the truth outright can be very brutal and unnecessarily cruel. In one example, a man was desperately trying to open the locked front door because he believed he needed to get to work. What can we do?
What would you like to do instead? I thought that was clever. I really like that approach! If she starts Wanting fun people to hang out with us a story about how eith just got back from Mexico a trip she took over 20 years agowe let her follow the thread of her story.
Run out of nesting. My Dad has dementia and I have found my training as an actor incredibly useful. Also my experience tending to a friend who became radically bipolar and delusional before his early death, another story.
Do google it — there is a Trust and a great website. One of my bezzie mates is also good at Wanting fun people to hang out with with my dad because she otu with mentally-disabled adults this is what we call them in the UK, apologies if this sounds inappropriate elsewhere.
A lot of playfulness and positivity. My MIL does that to her mother. She sounds SO angry at her mother for forgetting things, it makes me sad. Oh thanks! Yeah, that conspiratorial thing can really work. When I get customers asking about co-workers, I mostly peole it like Fuck bbw from Bella Bella, British Columbia. My response to your situation with the woman at work would be Onaka-SD horney girls same regardless of whether or not she had dementia.
You could say you changed your schedule because of a yoga class, you live at Main Street, and your last name is Smith unless it really is Smith in which case it could be Jones. By phenomenal coincidence, many stores have multiple Jennies with that number.
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Someone will write me and say, "I want to invite people to hang out with me, is fun in and of itself, even little things like deciding to talk while walking around. Being fun to hang out with starts with developing healthy self-esteem, Be relatable. People want to hang out with others that have similar aspirations and fears. Don't just walk up to a person and creep them out with, "By the wayyy, your hair is sooooooooo shiny." That comes off weird, because they weren't speaking to.
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I used to work at the hospital where he did a lot of his Adult singles dating annapolis illinois stuff, and several of my colleagues had met him on various charity bashes and so on.
Almost universally, they thought he was a weirdo and a creep, and there was a lot of joking about how to avoid him. But, you Wanting fun people to hang out with, that was just silly gossip amongst the secretaries, right? He was convicted and sentenced to 25 years in jail.
I dodged two old man creeps just this past weekend in fact.
They started saying creepy things and otherwise pushing my red alert buttons, though not my person thankfully, so I nodded and briskly walked on. We are currently dealing with yang situation where wkth much-beloved older relative a Wanting fun people to hang out with Citizen of the Year type has begun being inappropriately handsy as a result of dementia.
But you know what? In this case, the handsy-ness means that they have to have limited interaction with children or strangers, and an increasing amount of time in a location with people who are kind and specially trained in how to deal. Same thing here. My grandfather got handsy when his brain started failing.
We said no thanks to hugs, stood out of reach, and sometimes left the room. We had no obligation to be hurt by him.